Nearly 57 million. That is more than Barack Obama. In relationships and in life, I believe many of us overlook the importance of thoughtfulness. Life is fast-paced and we often get so wrapped up in our day-to-day that we lose sight of how important it is to work to make our significant other happy as well. It includes paying attention to small details and doing special things accordingly that we know each other will like.
Being thoughtful helps us live, connect, and love more deeply with others. A person who talks one way and acts another will be nearly impossible to build a real relationship with. A person who is intellectually curious about the world around them will never become boring or run out of things to talk about. They will hold our attention as well as challenge and motivate us to learn and absorb more as well. This is an important, but unappreciated quality that helps to keep relationships fresh and exciting.
Happiness in relationships stems from the ability to be honest with each other, which in turn stems from the comfort of knowing you can open up without being judged. When two people come together from different backgrounds and upbringings, we cannot expect to have every single interest or opinion in common.
And if we did, it would get boring quickly. It is natural to disagree, and maybe even to argue — but it is profoundly important to be able to approach these situations with maturity and civility. It is not realistic to think that every person will always thrive in all different types of scenarios. A situation you love to be in might mortify your significant other.
But, that being said, I believe it is important to develop a versatility in ourselves that allows us to be comfortable in a variety of environments. Someone who supports your interests. While many people think that sharing common interests is important to a relationship [and it is, to an extent] it is not that high on the list. If you are with someone who puts on a sour face or wants to leave early any time they are doing something you want to do, but you are happy and willing to do everything they enjoy, one can easily see how this would quickly become an issue.
Optimism is not being blind to reality, it is choosing to see the positive side of a situation regardless of how hard you have to look for it.
Someone who ignores the silver lining because of the dark center will become emotionally exhausting — particularly if you always have to convince them the bright side exists. Communication is the backbone to a relationship. Without the ability and willingness to be honest with each other, there will be conflicts due to secrets that should not be secrets. If we are unable to tell our significant other what makes us happy, what bothers us, what is important to us, or what our concerns are — how can we ever expect them to learn and adjust accordingly?
Passion for us, yes. But also passion for life. Passion for a purpose, or a hobby, or a business, or a charity, or something. When someone lives with passion, they bring that excitement and curiosity with them to all areas, including their relationship with you. Patience is a virtue, as they say. Being patient allows us the ability to make those around us more comfortable with us by not rushing them or making them feel pressured to do, be, or act a certain way.
It is the foundation for being more easy-going and amicable. Not to mention, being patient reduces stress because we understand that certain things are just not worth stressing about. Raise your hand if you want to try to build a relationship with someone who is so stuck in their ways that they refuse to do, learn, or try anything new….
No matter how kindhearted or giving someone is, lack of appreciation for their efforts will, eventually, cause them to walk away. A partner who is appreciative of things we do for them [no matter how big or small] is one we will continue to want to do those things for. A deep connection can really only form when two people have the depth necessary to cultivate it. You let yourself learn new things, which helps you grow and contribute to the world. You honor your life by making healthcare a priority.
You take time away from work to simply be, which allows you to feel balanced. You bounce back from bad days and disappointments. You choose to be around people who make you feel good about yourself. You work toward goals that make you feel passionate and purposeful.
You smile, which benefits both you and the people around you. You have good intentions. You accept people for who they are and try to keep an open mind. You listen to the people when they need an ear. You make selfless decisions to look out for the people you love, even if not always. You vocalize it when you notice something you value, admire, or appreciate in someone else.
You help other people reach their potential. You care about your work, or something you do outside it, and you do it passionately. You want to make a difference. You vote to create positive change. You recycle to preserve our natural resources. You choose not to litter. You call for help when you see something potentially hazardous. You teach something valuable to someone every day, whether you realize it or not. I do this to connect with you.
Knowing you makes it all worthwhile. Humor, kindness, curiosity, patience, talent, whimsy, simplicity, spontaneity, sense of wonder and adventure Bobby Alcott 17 years ago.
All the things above, yes I appreciate a steady mood. I really have a difficult time with moodiness. I mean, we all have ups and downs, but I truly appreciate the person that can avoid taking out their frustrations on you. Sandy Girl 17 years ago. Soulful eyes. T a k 17 years ago. Among many things that have already been mentioned It can be very difficult dealing with someone who is unable or unwilling to look at themselves through someone else's eyes.
Just being honest with themselves and others. That proves to me what they realy say or mean truly comes from the heart. To make a tangent from Stitch's post, I appreciate someone who can show affection.
Something as simple as holding someone's hand or sitting close together can mean the world to me. Mikenpet 17 years ago. I appreciate the goodness in all mankind. As a whole, most all people are good and have good hearts. I appreciate A little appreciation when you're feeling down can mean the world. It's something I get very little of. Too many people take others for granted - and thus, don't treat them equally.
Mutual appreciation is such a nice thing. But of course, also, kindness, consideration of others, and thoughtfulness. They're all related I suppose. I agree!!! Hawaiian beach.
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